{"id":11500,"date":"2018-06-24T10:54:38","date_gmt":"2018-06-24T07:54:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/seragpsych.com\/wordpress\/?p=11500"},"modified":"2018-06-24T10:58:19","modified_gmt":"2018-06-24T07:58:19","slug":"7-types-of-toxic-people-you-should-avoid","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/seragpsych.com\/wordpress\/7-types-of-toxic-people-you-should-avoid\/","title":{"rendered":"7 Types of Toxic People: you should avoid"},"content":{"rendered":"
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7 Types of Toxic People and How to Spot Them<\/h1>\n<\/div>\n
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Do you have a toxic person in your life?<\/p>\n

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Draining, non-supportive and difficult people are one of life\u2019s greatest challenges. In this post, I want to talk about how you can spot, stop and deal with the toxic people who come into your life.\u00a0You deserve to have people in your life who you enjoy<\/strong>\u00a0spending time with, who support you and who you LOVE hanging out with.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

Here\u2019s the problem:\u00a0Guilt<\/b><\/p>\n

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Whenever I talk about toxic people, the same categories seem to crop up over and over again:<\/p>\n

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  • Friend by History:\u00a0<\/b>This is a person who you have known forever. Maybe you went to elementary school together or you were neighbors growing up. Now you feel guilty ending the relationship.<\/li>\n
  • Friend by Proximity:<\/b>\u00a0This is a person who comes as a package with someone else in your life. Maybe it\u2019s your partner\u2019s best friend or your friend\u2019s brother who always tags along or your best friend\u2019s childhood friend. You feel guilty because you don\u2019t want to put your person in an awkward situation.<\/li>\n
  • Friend by Context:<\/b>\u00a0This is a person who you see all the time in a specific area of your life\u2013someone you work with everyday. Someone on your flag football team. Someone who lives across the hall. You feel guilty brushing them off because you see them all the dang time.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    Sometimes these relationships are casual, but other times they can grow rotten. You end up keeping someone in your life who is jealous or has a totally different set of ethics, and this is when they become toxic.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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    Here are the 7 types of toxic people to watch out for:<\/p>\n

    #1: Conversational Narcissist<\/h3>\n

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    Have you ever been talking to someone who keeps interrupting you? Maybe I should revise that sentence: have you ever been\u00a0trying<\/em>\u00a0to talk to someone who won\u2019t let you get a word in? Conversational narcissists LOVE to talk about themselves\u2014or just hear themselves talk. They don\u2019t ask you any questions, they don\u2019t wait for your responses and they won\u2019t shut up. In a relationship, these people will end up being completely self-centered and never be attentive to your needs.<\/p>\n

    #2: The Straight Jacket<\/h3>\n

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    The straight jacket is someone who wants to control everything and everyone around them. They want to be in charge of what you do, what you say and even what you think. You know the person I am talking about\u2013they freak out when you disagree with them and won\u2019t stop trying to convince you that they are right and you should do what they say. In a relationship, this person will give you no breathing room and will constantly nag you until you are in complete alignment with them. Be careful, these people will go after your emotional, conversational and mental freedom until you have nothing left. Get out while you can!<\/p>\n

    #3: Emotional Moocher<\/h3>\n

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    An emotional moocher is also known as a spiritual vampire because they tend to suck the positivity out of you or bleed you emotionally dry. These are the kinds of people who always have something sad, negative or pessimistic to say. In conversations and relationships, they can never see the positive and tend to bring everyone down with them. If you\u2019re with someone and they only have bad things to say whenever you see them, watch out, it might not get better.<\/p>\n

    #4: Drama Magnet<\/h3>\n

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    Some toxic people are magnets for drama. Something is always wrong. Always. And of course, once a problem is solved, another one emerges. And they only want your empathy, sympathy, and support\u2013but not your advice! You offer help and solutions, but they never seem to want to fix anything. Instead, they complain and complain. In a relationship, drama magnets are victims and thrive in a crisis because it makes them feel important. If someone is a beacon for adversity, watch out, you might one day become part of the drama.<\/p>\n

    #5: A JJ<\/h3>\n

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    My friends and I can spot a JJ from a mile away and I want to show you how to as well. A JJ is a jealous-judgmental person. Jealous people are incredibly toxic because they have so much internal self-hate that they can\u2019t be happy for anyone around them. And typically, their jealousy comes out as judgment, criticism or gossip. According to them, everyone else is awful, uncool or lacking in some way. If someone starts to jealously gossip with you about other people, watch out, this might be a toxic person\u2014and you never know what they say about you behind your back.<\/p>\n

    #6: The Fibber<\/h3>\n

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    Liars, fibbers, exaggerators\u2026 it\u2019s exhausting to have a toxic deceiver in your life. Whether they tell little falsehoods or major lies, it\u2019s impossible to trust a liar in a relationship. Dishonesty drains us because we are constantly doubting their words. If your intuition is ringing alarm bells, then watch out, get out before you\u2019re lied to.<\/p>\n

    #7: A Tank<\/h3>\n
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    A tank crushes everything in its wake. A human tank is always right, doesn\u2019t take anyone else\u2019s feelings or ideas into account and constantly puts themselves first. In a relationship, tanks are incredibly arrogant and see their personal opinions as facts. This is because they often think they are the smartest person in the room and so they see every conversation and person as a challenge that must be won over. They rarely see others as equals\u2014and this can be challenging when trying to form a loving connection. If you feel your ideas are being run over, or you are not being respected, get out while you still can!<\/p>\n

    How to Deal with Toxicity<\/h2>\n

    Did someone pop into your head as I explained these toxic personality types? If you have someone in your life who you dread seeing, who doesn\u2019t respect your opinions or makes you feel bad about yourself in any way, then you need to just say no. Do you feel:<\/p>\n

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    • You have to constantly save this person and fix their problems<\/li>\n
    • You are covering up or hiding for them<\/li>\n
    • You dread seeing them<\/li>\n
    • You feel drained after being with them<\/li>\n
    • You get angry, sad or depressed when you are around them<\/li>\n
    • They cause you to gossip or be mean<\/li>\n
    • You feel you have to impress them<\/li>\n
    • You\u2019re affected by their drama or problems<\/li>\n
    • They ignore your needs and don\u2019t hear \u2018no\u2019<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

      Tain and adapt to IGNORE THE TOXIC …..<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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