{"id":8832,"date":"2017-08-20T00:46:10","date_gmt":"2017-08-19T21:46:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/seragpsych.com\/wordpress\/?p=8832"},"modified":"2017-08-20T00:46:43","modified_gmt":"2017-08-19T21:46:43","slug":"improve-rapport-with-difficult-patients","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/seragpsych.com\/wordpress\/improve-rapport-with-difficult-patients\/","title":{"rendered":"Improve Rapport with difficult patients"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As psychiatrists, we all come across patients who press our buttons and engender negative feelings, such as anger, frustration, and inadequacy.<sup>1<\/sup>\u00a0These patients have been referred to as \u201chateful\u201d or \u201cdifficult\u201d because they disrupt the treatment alliance.<sup>1,2<\/sup>\u00a0We are quick to point our fingers at such patients for making our jobs harder, being noncompliant, resisting the therapeutic alliance, and in general, being \u201cproblem patients.\u201d<sup>3<\/sup>\u00a0However, the physician\u2013patient relationship is a 2-way street. Although our patients knowingly or unknowingly play a role in this dynamic, we could be overlooking our role in adversely affecting this relationship. The following factors influence the physician\u2013patient bond.<sup>1,2<\/sup><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"bbody\"><strong>Countertransference.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-thumbnail wp-image-5021\" src=\"http:\/\/seragpsych.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/doctor_talking_to_woman-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"bbody\">\u00a0<\/span>We may have negative feelings toward a patient based on our personalities and\/or if the patient reminds us of someone we may not like, which could lead us to over-prescribe or under\u00adprescribe medications, conduct unnecessary medical workups, distance ourselves from the patient, etc. Accepting our disdain for certain patients and understanding why we have these emotions will allow us to better understand them, ensure that we are not impeding the delivery of appropriate clinical care, and improve rapport.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span class=\"bbody\">Listening.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-thumbnail wp-image-2104\" src=\"http:\/\/seragpsych.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/dementia_s25_doctor_showing_patient_medication-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It may seem obvious that not listening to our patients negatively impacts rapport. However, in today\u2019s technological world, we may not be really listening to our patients even when we think we are. Answering a text message or reading the patient\u2019s electronic medical record while they are talking to us may increase productivity, but doing so also can interfere with our ability to form a therapeutic alliance. Although we may hear what our patients are saying, such distractions can create a hurdle in listening to what they are telling us.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span class=\"bbody\">Empathy<\/span>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-thumbnail wp-image-5469\" src=\"http:\/\/seragpsych.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/psychiatrist-150x150.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" srcset=\"https:\/\/seragpsych.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/psychiatrist-150x150.gif 150w, https:\/\/seragpsych.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/psychiatrist-300x300.gif 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>often is confused for sympathy. Sympathy entails expressing concern and compassion for one\u2019s distress, whereas empathy includes recognizing and sharing the patient\u2019s emotions. Identifying with and understanding our patients\u2019 situations, drives, and feelings allow us to understand what they are experiencing, see why they are reacting in a negative manner, and protect them from unnecessary emotional distress. Empathy can lead us to know what needs to be said and what should be said. It also can demystify a patient\u2019s suffering. Not providing empathy or substituting sympathy can disrupt the therapeutic alliance.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span class=\"bbody\">Projective identification.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Patients can project intolerable and negative feelings onto us and coerce us into identifying with what has been projected, allowing them to indirectly take control of our emotions. Our subsequent reactions can unsettle the physician\u2013patient relationship. We need to be attuned to this process and recognize what the patient is provoking within us. Once we understand the process, we can realize that this is how they deal with others under similarly stressful conditions, and then react in a more supportive and healthy manner, rather than<\/p>\n<p>Patients can project intolerable and negative feelings onto us and coerce us into identifying with what has been projected, allowing them to indirectly take control of our emotions. Our subsequent reactions can unsettle the physician\u2013patient relationship. We need to be attuned to this process and recognize what the patient is provoking within us. Once we understand the process, we can realize that this is how they deal with others under similarly stressful conditions, and then react in a more supportive and healthy manner, rather than be reviling our patients and negatively be impacting the therapeutic relationship.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div class=\"panel-pane pane-entity-field-extra pane-node-citation byline\">\n<div class=\"pane-content\"><span class=\"article-citation\"><em>Current Psychiatry<\/em>. 2017 August;16(8):49<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"panel-pane pane-entity-field pane-node-field-article-authors byline\">\n<div class=\"pane-content\"><span class=\"field-label\">Author(s):\u00a0<\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mdedge.com\/authors\/kaustubh-g-joshi\">Kaustubh G. Joshi<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As psychiatrists, we all come across patients who press our buttons and engender negative feelings, such as anger, frustration, and inadequacy.1\u00a0These patients have been referred to as \u201chateful\u201d or \u201cdifficult\u201d because they disrupt the treatment alliance.1,2\u00a0We are quick to point our fingers at such patients for making our jobs harder, being noncompliant, resisting the therapeutic [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3549,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[427,458,151],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8832","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-427","category-458","category-151","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/seragpsych.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8832","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/seragpsych.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/seragpsych.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/seragpsych.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/seragpsych.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8832"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/seragpsych.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8832\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8834,"href":"https:\/\/seragpsych.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8832\/revisions\/8834"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/seragpsych.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3549"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/seragpsych.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8832"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/seragpsych.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8832"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/seragpsych.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8832"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}