Is it Psychiatric illness or an overactive thyroid?

Millions of people have an overactive thyroid gland. Many don’t know it.
This condition, known as hyperthyroidism, occurs more often in women than in men. Since the thyroid gland controls the body’s metabolism, an overactive thyroid puts the body into overdrive.

Some of the signs and symptoms of an overactive thyroid include:

Heat intolerance.

A sped-up metabolism leads to an increase in body temperature.

Exhaustion.

A body perpetually in overdrive tires out more quickly.

Emotional changes.

Fatigue coupled with an overstimulated central nervous system can lead to a variety of emotional changes. Anxiety intermixed with depression, as well insomnia or irritability, are not uncommon.

Perspiration and thirst.

As your body temperature rises, your sweat glands tend to overwork, and you feel the need to continually replenish fluids.

Constant hunger.

As your body uses up energy, it tends to cry out for more. Some people have an insatiable appetite.

Unexplained weight loss

. Even though you may eat constantly, you could lose weight, usually between 5 and 10 pounds — even more in extreme cases.

Racing heart

. You may notice your heart racing out of the blue. This can occur when you are exerting yourself or when you are relaxing. You may find your pulse is much faster than normal.

Enlarged thyroid gland.

Sometimes, but not always, the thyroid gland becomes enlarged and may protrude from the neck to form a goiter. If the goiter is large enough, it may feel lumpy.

Hand tremors.

Overstimulated nerves can make your hands shake. The shaking may be subtle, or it could be to the point where you can’t steadily carry a drink without spilling it.

Diarrhea.

An overactive thyroid causes the digestive system to speed up, and this leads to frequent, loose bowel movements.

Eye problems.

In some people with an overactive thyroid gland, eye problems can occur and be quite severe. The most common eye symptom is a retraction of the eyelids that makes the eyes appear to bulge or stare dramatically. Your eyes may also be puffy and watery, and you may experience double vision.

Hives.

You might notice an itchy rash, which can be relieved with antihistamines.

Menstrual changes and infertility.

Women may notice lighter or missed periods, and may have trouble becoming pregnant.

Avoid Mistakes in Email

 ‘Address In Last

and Other Suggestions

No one is perfect, and anyone can make a mistake occasionally, but if you make mistakes frequently, or have a number of them in any one email, your reputation is likely to suffer.

five tips to help catch errors:

1. Read your message aloud.

If you read the words slowly, you will often hear any mistakes. Try it out on the italicized sentence above. Reading out loud also helps with the tone of your writing. If it sounds harsh to you, it will sound harsh to the reader.

2. Always look for error.

This means that when you are proofing your writing, keep looking until you find an error. And if you don’t find one, keep looking until you do – or until you are absolutely satisfied that there are none to find. It’s easy to miss an error unless you have a strategy for finding one.

3. Have someone else proof your writing.

It is easier for other people to catch your mistakes, as they read what you’ve written with fresh eyes.

4. Remember this acronym AIL.

AIL stands for Address In Last. Use this acronym to remind yourself not to send an email before you have finished writing and proofing the message. You can’t send an email without an address. Even when you are replying to a message, it’s a good precaution to delete the recipient’s name, and insert it only when you are sure the message is ready to be sent.

5. Double-check the spelling of the person’s name in the salutation.

Many people are offended when others misspell their names. The final thing to do before you hit “send” is to look at the recipient’s address. Often the person’s first and/or last name is in the address. You want the salutation to match the spelling in the address.

 

The Etiquette of the Handshake

“When did women start shaking hands? It feels awkward.”

A very bright, talented, professional woman asked me that question. Initially, I was startled. Yet, as I thought about the question, I realized that many women in my seminars are reluctant to shake hands, and others do so incorrectly.

In today’s workplace, shaking hands is not for men only. The handshake is the business greeting: Both men and women need to shake hands, and to do so correctly.

One woman told me she got her job because she shook hands at the beginning of the interview and again at the end. The manager told the woman that he chose her because she handled herself so professionally. Another woman realized that she had been the only one at her table who stood when she shook hands with her CEO. As a result, she had a conversation with him; the other individuals did not.

Why do women sometimes feel uncomfortable about shaking hands? The reasons vary:

1. Some women were never taught to shake hands. It is not that these women were told not to do so, it is that they were not taught to do so. One woman in an etiquette class was shocked when she realized that she was not teaching her four-year-old daughter to shake hands, but she had already started teaching her two-year-old son to shake hands.

2. Women bring the personal greeting of kissing friends on the cheek into the workplace. This can be awkward, since you will not want to kiss or hug everyone you meet at work, nor will everyone be comfortable with that greeting.

3. Many women were taught that they did not need to stand when shaking hands. Before each of my seminars, I walk around the room to introduce myself to my participants and extend my hand in a greeting. Approximately 70 to 75 percent of men, but only 30 to 35 percent of women, stand to shake my hand. You establish your presence when you stand. Both men and women should stand when shaking hands.

You will be judged by your handshake. Be honest: What do you think if someone gives you a limp handshake? Yes, you tend to think of that person as weak and unimpressive.

To shake hands properly:
Extend your hand with the thumb up.
Touch thumb joint to thumb joint with the person you are greeting. Put your thumb down, and wrap your fingers around the palm of the other person.
Make sure your grip is firm, but don’t break any bones – it’s not a competition.
Don’t over-pump. Two to three pumps is enough. Face the person, and make eye contact.
And one more thing: It used to be that men needed to wait for a woman to extend her hand. Not anymore. The new guideline is to give the higher-ranking person a split second to extend his or her hand, and if he or she does not, you extend yours. The key is that the handshake needs to take place.

Are We All Schizophrenic? Delusions – Hallucinations

The ignorance in the public understanding of schizophrenia and related disorders is shockingly poor, with a survey by the National Alliance on Mental Illness indicating that 64% of Americans are unable to recognize its symptoms or incorrectly think the symptoms include split or multiple personalities. Misunderstanding schizophrenia is a key driver of the stigmatization of individuals with the condition, which has detrimental consequences, such as reduced housing and employment opportunities, diminished quality of life and health, low self-esteem, more symptoms and stress – which only further exacerbates the condition and reduces chances of recovery.

While misportrayal in the media and the name itself (schizo = split, phrenia = mind) are partly to blame, schizophrenia continues to be largely misunderstood as many of us think we are unable to relate. We are unable to put ourselves in the shoes of someone with the disorder. So let’s take the time now to set the record straight.

What you are about to discover is that we may be more able to relate to people that have experienced schizophrenic episodes than we think. Both new and not so new research reveals that the symptoms of schizophrenia are more common in non-schizophrenic individuals than we like to think.

The first criteria in the DSM-V for a schizophrenia diagnosis lists five main symptoms, at least two of which must be present for at least one month. One of the two symp­toms must be delu­sions, hal­lu­ci­na­tions or dis­or­ga­nized speech.

  • Delu­sions
  • Hal­lu­ci­na­tions
  • Dis­or­ga­nized speech (e.g., fre­quent derail­ment or inco­her­ence)
  • Grossly dis­or­ga­nized or cata­tonic behav­ior
  • Neg­a­tive symp­toms (i.e., dimin­ished emo­tional expres­sion or avolition)

Yet having only one symptom is sufficient for meeting symptom criteria if the delusions are considered bizarre (totally and utterly impossible, not understandable to same-culture peers and not derived from ordinary life experiences), or if auditory hallucinations involve a voice keeping up a running commentary of thoughts and behaviors or two or more voices talking with each other.

The key question is how common are these symptoms in the general populace? For the first part in the series we will consider delusions.

Symptom 1 – Delusions

Delusions are classified in the DSM-V as:

“…fixed beliefs that are not amenable to change in light of conflicting evidence. Their content may include a variety of themes (e.g. persecutory, referential, somatic, religious, grandiose)… The distinction between a delusion and a strongly held idea is sometimes difficult to make and depends in part on the degree of conviction with which the belief is held despite clear or reasonable contradictory evidence regarding its veracity.”

Have I ever had beliefs that I believed to be true despite conflicting evidence ? Or, although no proof against the truth of my belief can be found, did I believe with my mind, body and soul despite other people finding the idea implausible? Check! And have I ever had these beliefs persisting for a month or more? Check! Have I ever had schizophrenia or a related disorder? No.

A large body of evidence supports this idea, that we all have experienced non-pathological delusional beliefs throughout our lifetime and even generally in day to day life, and some delusions may actually be good for us (see the end of this article). For example one study found that over 10% of the non-clinical general population experience grandiose beliefs, i.e. that they are extraordinarily special in some way, although the belief is typically held with less conviction, less resistance to change and causes less significant social and occupational impairment than in those diagnosed with schizophrenia.

Professor of Clinical Psychology at Oxford University, Daniel Freeman, published a review of the literature in 2006 stating that:

“Approximately 1% to 3% of the nonclinical population have delusions of a level of severity comparable to clinical cases of psychosis. A further 5% to 6% of the nonclinical population have a delusion but not of such severity. Although less severe, these beliefs are associated with a range of social and emotional difficulties. A further 10% to 15% of the nonclinical population have fairly regular delusional ideation.”

Moreover, there is an inverse relationship between our age and how common and strongly held our delusional beliefs are. I don’t think anyone would argue that children are inherently delusional creatures: Magical, superstitious, bizarre, grandiose, paranoid and all kinds of delusions are not unusual for their rapidly developing yet immature belief systems.

Who here believed monsters lived under their beds or in the closet despite being shown repeatedly that there is nothing there? When I was around four or five, I believed I was a magical being that faeries had gifted sacred magical dust for super powers like flying off of the couch. I was so frustrated and furiously upset when no one would believe me that I tried to run away with the faeries, quite literally!

Similarly, delusional beliefs are pretty common in adolescents and young adults. In comparison to our previously mentioned grandiose delusions held by 10% of the general population, some studies have shown that the same beliefs are experienced by up to a colossal 75% of 15-26 year old’s. What’s more is that another study has shown that this subset of highly delusional individuals experience more distress and preoccupation associated with their delusional beliefs than the general population, as found in schizophrenia.

Interestingly, the extent to which a delusion is believed, how much it interferes with a person’s life and its emotional impact are what researchers often use to set pathological delusions apart from non-pathological ones, as these factors are typically more extreme in schizophrenic patients. If you can recall however:

“Approximately 1% to 3% of the nonclinical population have delusions of a level of severity comparable to clinical cases of psychosis.”

Herein lies the rub, “normal” and seemingly non-pathological delusions can be highly distressing, make you and perhaps others question your sanity and have huge emotional and life changing impacts.

Let’s say one day you have a profound religious experience where you believed that God was talking directly to you, reminding you of your sins or your importance and offering you a chance to repent by sending you on a personal mission. This is not an overwhelmingly uncommon experience in religious communities. You might believe in your mission to the core of your being, quit your job, feel overwhelmingly distressed, leave your family and friends despite their pleas, abandon everything and head off into the unknown on your religious mission.

Or let’s say that you less extravagantly “find God/Jesus”, believing that God/Jesus can hear you and is watching you and that you can influence real-life world events through praying to God/Jesus. This belief is not considered a delusion seeing as millions of other people believe the same – despite their being no way to conclusively prove this is true.

But if you replace God with the all-powerful Mars alien Lord Ziltoid, and there is not a group of individuals believing this too, it could easily be considered a pathological delusion. Unless you are a child of course, then we just chalk it down to an overactive imagination or a phase.

The same goes for non-religious beliefs that may or may not be considered delusional. For a little perspective, here are a few examples of common delusion themes, and a typical related question used in research-based diagnostic tools like the Peters et al. Delusions Inventory (PDI):

  • Delusions of grandeur – Do you ever feel that you are a very special, unique or unusual person or are destined to be someone important?
  • Delusions of control Do you ever feel as if electrical devices such as computers can influence the way you think, or that there is a force, power or other people that can interfere with your thoughts or actions?
  • Delusions of guilt Do you ever feel that you have sinned more than the average person?
  • Delusions of reference Do you see any special meaning for yourself in everyday objects?
  • Delusions of persecution Do you ever feel there is a conspiracy against you?
  • Delusion of jealousy or paranoia Do you ever think that someone/your spouse is talking about you, hiding things from you or being unfaithful to you behind your back?
  • Magical delusions – Do you believe in the power of witchcraft, voodoo or the occult?

Some of these delusions are relatively commonly held beliefs that can cause high levels of distress, make life difficult to live and socially isolate you from others that don’t share your belief, all while not having schizophrenia.

For example delusional jealousy, is an all too common phenomena. We all know someone has let their social media stalking green-eyed monster rear their ugly head, despite having no proof or justifiable reason to believe anything untoward is going on. Likewise, delusions of reference are pretty standard day to day operations for many healthy individuals, where a person falsely believes that insignificant remarks, events, or objects in one’s environment have personal meaning or significance:

“the clock read 3:33 today, the 33 bus broke down right in front of me and then I was handed 33 cents change. Doo do doo do doo do doo do – the universe is trying to tell me something!”

So ultimately, no matter how bizarre a belief might seem to some, no matter how distressing and life-shattering, it seems that ultimately it is the cultural context which dictates whether a belief is truly delusional or not.

Can delusions be good for us?

On a final note, there is actually evidence suggesting that a certain amount of delusional thinking might actually be good for us! Often we cling onto delusions that make us feel good, or prevent us from feeling bad, whether they are about ourselves, other people or any aspect of life.

For example students may choose to believe more job offers and higher salaries upon graduation are in store for them despite statistics saying otherwise, aiding motivation to complete their studies. Take marriage as another example. Although researchers estimate that 40–50% of all first marriages end in divorce, we marry anyway, many believing unshakably of being together until death do us part, which presumably enhances our feelings of security in the relationship and validates the purpose of the commitment.

Moreover, self-delusional overconfidence in ones abilities and importance, i.e. believing you are better than you are in reality, has been outlined as advantageous in numerous studies as:

“…it serves to increase ambition, morale, resolve, persistence or the credibility of bluffing, generating a self-fulfilling prophecy in which exaggerated confidence actually increases the probability of success.”

In light of this, delusions are not always cognitive flaws, or indeed indicative of schizophrenia and related disorders. They can be life, emotion and peace disrupting; be purposeful and useful features of cognition; or simply be culturally acceptable quirks in our collective thinking and belief system.

 

 

Have you ever heard, seen, smelt, felt or tasted something that wasn’t actually there? If you have, you are probably like the overwhelming majority of the world’s population, schizophrenia and psychosis free. Hallucinations, despite common misconceptions, are a part of normal healthy living that most of us put down to a “brain glitch”. Let’s take a look at just how common hallucinating is and how this relates to individuals experiencing schizophrenic hallucinations.

May the destigmitazation commence!

Hallucinations are defined as the perception of an object or event, using any of the five senses (sight, hearing, touch, smell and taste), despite there being no external stimulus. We will leave out hypnagogic (falling asleep) and hypnopompic (waking up) hallucinations, or there we would be no discussion, we would end the debate here by simply stating that we all have the potential to hallucinate practically every day!

For that matter, let’s put sleep deprivation to one side too, as 8 out of 10 of us are likely to have visual hallucinations if sleep deprived for long enough. The longer you go without sleep, the more intense the hallucination. Moreover, forget including childhood in the equation, or bouts of delirious fever.

We should also recognize that even in science research, self-reports of hallucinations are likely under-reported in healthy people for multiple reasons. One reason established by research is an individuals fear of appearing insane. Thankfully, reports of hallucinations are not so easily effected by the need to be socially desirable as reports of delusions are.

A revealing analysis of the World Health Organization’s World Health Survey from 52 countries indicates that the frequency of self-reports of hallucinations in the general population are greatly impacted by culture. For example, estimates of the number of people reporting hallucinations over a 12 month period in Nepal were a hearty 32%. Meanwhile, in Kazakhstan this number was a meagre 0.5%.

While currently there aren’t any real, solid ideas as to why, and more questions being posed than answers being given, let’s put cultural differences aside and take a look at the various forms of hallucinations in a little more detail.

Auditory Hallucinations

“What? Did someone call my name?”

Auditory hallucinations are the most commonly reported type of hallucination in schizophrenia (present in 60-90% of patients) and most commonly manifests as hearing voices, with music hearing also being commonly reported.

One of the largest and most detailed studies on hearing voices estimates that 5-15% of all adults will experience hearing voices at some point during their lifetimes. One percent of these healthy, non-schizophrenic individuals may hear multiple and at times interacting voices with character-like qualities that are typically associated with chronic schizophrenic hallucinations. For many, it’s just a normal mode of experience.

Visual Hallucinations

“I am sure there was a man standing there!”

Visual hallucinations typically involve flashes of light or sightings of people and/or animals and are the second most commonly reported type of hallucination in schizophrenia (16-72% of patients). Let’s not forget that in certain religious circles, seeing a flash of light may be considered a gift or glimpse of God.

Reports estimate that 4-12% of healthy individuals have visual hallucinations (although numbers vary greatly between different countries, as mentioned previously).

Tactile and Somatic Hallucinations

“Ahhhh! Was that a beasty crawling up my leg?!”

Tactile hallucinations involve sensations felt on the skin, like being tapped on the shoulder or an insect crawling along the surface. Somatic hallucinations on the other hand involve more internal physical sensations, like feelings of electricity in the brain or snakes slithering inside the stomach.

One US-based study estimates that tactile and somatic hallucinations occur in around 20% of schizophrenic patients. Currently, how common this is in the general populace is largely unknown. One UK report estimates that 3% of the population experience touch-based hallucinations, 24% of which have no association with poor mental health.

Olfactory and Gustatory Hallucinations

“Can you smell/taste that? No? Just me?”

Olfactory (smell) and gustatory (taste) hallucinations, known as phantosmia and gustatory phantasma respectively, are the least reported hallucinations in schizophrenic patients. This may very well be because they are less distressing and less infamous, but that does not necessarily mean that they are uncommon, and are suspected to be grossly under-reported.

In a US-based study, 17% and 8% of schizophrenic patients experienced olfactory and gustatory hallucinations respectively. Interestingly, initial estimates of hallucinations of smell and taste in the general UK population are pretty similar at 7-8%, with 2-3% of participants having had experienced the hallucinations the month prior to when the study was conducted.

Hallucinations in Schizophrenia

So what is the difference between hallucinations experienced when a person is diagnosed as schizophrenic, compared to when they are diagnosed as mentally healthy? Its worthy of note that not all schizophrenic patients experience hallucinations, with the International Pilot Study of Schizophrenia estimating that approximately 70% of schizophrenic patients experience them. For those that do they are rarely benign or pleasant.

In the schizophrenic population, these hallucinations – that healthy people tend to chalk down to an intriguing blip in reality – are more frequent, intrusive and distressing. The real game-changer is when one believes that these glitches in our naturally skewed, flawed and limited interpretation of reality are real.

Hallucinations as a Sign of Ill-Health?

That being said, there are numerous reports of hallucinations being associated with physical health problems independently of a mental disorder, and those that persist may be worthy of clinical examination. They are often reported in individuals with epilepsy, brain tumors, migraines, visual impairment, stroke, drug withdrawal, sinus diseases, sensory deprivation, narcolepsy, inborn errors of metabolism and various neurodegenerative diseases.

However, an individual that is blessed by never having mental health issues and is in perfect physical health may still experience regular hallucinations. Experiencing hallucinations are far more common than schizophrenia or a related mental disorder, as well as most of the more physical ailments that hallucinations are associated with!

With the misplaced idea that hallucinating is a dead cert sign of mental illness free from your mind, please feel free to share your hallucinatory experiences and let’s see just how common they are.

 

 

 

From:

 

http://brainblogger.com/2015/04/10/are-we-all-schizophrenic-part-1-delusions/

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Habits of genuinely charming people

1. They willinglyعن طيب خاطر show a little vulnerability ضعف. 

ParisFeb (181)Charming people don’t try to win any unstated competitions with people they meet. In fact, they actively try to lose. They’re complimentary. They’re impressed. They’re even willing to admit a weakness or a failure.

It’s really easy. Say you meet a would-be Donald Trump and he says, “I just closed a fabulous deal to build the world’s best golf course on the most amazing oceanfront property on the planet.”

Don’t try to win. Instead say, “That’s awesome. I’m jealous. I’ve wanted to build a small recreation facility for years, but can’t line up the financing. How did you pull off such a huge deal?”

Charming people are confident enough to be unafraid to show a little vulnerability.

2. They show they’re genuinely glad to meet you. 

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They maintain eye contact. They smile when you smile. They frown when you frown. They nod your head when you nod. In simple, nonverbal ways, they mimic your behavior — not slavishly, but because they’re focused on what you’re saying.

 

3. They search for agreement instead of contradiction. 

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Unfortunately going contrary is an easy habit to fall into. It’s easy to automatically look for points of disagreement rather than agreement. It’s easy to automatically take a different side.

And it’s easy to end up in what feels like an argument.

 

4. They (selectively) use the power of touch.

uu_kenyaNonsexual touch can be incredibly powerful.  Touch can influence behavior, increase the chances of compliance, make the person doing the touching seem more attractive and friendly, and can even help you make a sale.

For example, in one experiment the participants tried to convey twelve different emotions by touching another blindfolded participant on the forearm. The rate of accuracy for perceiving emotions like fear, anger, gratitude, sympathy, love, and disgust ranged from 43% to 83% — without a word being spoken.

Say you’re congratulating someone; shaking hands or (possibly better yet, depending on the situation) patting them gently on the shoulder or upper arm can help reinforce the sincerity of your words.

5. They often dine يحدد out on their foibles نقاط الضعف . 

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And they’re also not afraid to look a little silly.

And oddly enough, people tend to respect them more for that — not less.

When you genuinely own your foibles, people don’t laugh at you. They laugh with you. And they realize it’s OK to let down their own guards and meet you at a genuine level.

6. They’re masters of social Jiu-Jitsu.

DSC_2694Some people have a knackموهبة  for getting you to talk openly yourself. They ask open-ended questions.

They sincerely want to know what you think, and that makes you open up to a surprising degree.

And you like them for making you feel that way.

As soon as you learn something about someone, ask why they do it. Or how. Or what they like about it, or what they’ve learned from it.

8. They’re great with names. 

Wisconsin_Bascom_Hall_at_duskCharming people remember names and even small details, often to a surprising degree. The fact they remember instantly makes us feel a little better about ourselves — that means we, even in a small way, we matter.

And that makes us feel better about the person who remembers us.

Yet even though charming people remember names…

9. They never name drop.

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Charming people may know cool people… but they don’t talk about it. And that only adds to their charm.

10. They always let you talk more.

 

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Oprah Winfrey

 

 

From:
http://www.businessinsider.com/habits-of-genuinely-charming-people-2015-4
Read more: https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/10-habits-genuinely-charming-people-jeff-haden#ixzz3dIW3i1WF

10 common cover letter mistakes

These are common mistakes I see all the time,
If you want your cover letter to help you, not hurt you, you’ll want to avoid these errors.

1. Typos and grammatical errors.

Typos are a really easy way to land your application in the “no” pile.

“Your communication skills are perceived according to how well the letter is written,” Nicolai explains. “If a typo or grammatical error is present, the reader may think you were ‘too busy’ or lazy to check your work or don’t care enough about this job to take the application process seriously. Or worse, they’ll think you just don’t know how to spell.”

Never rely on spell check. Ask a friend or family member to look it over before you submit the cover letter to the employer.

2. Writing too much.

Today, gatekeepers (recruiters and hiring manager) do not have the resources or time to read each candidate’s resume and multi-page cover letter. “I encourage people to stick to one page,” she says. “And because people have short attention spans today, and less time to read each cover letter in full, I suggest writing in bite-sized nuggets or bullet points.”

3. Addressing the letter to the wrong person.

There’s absolutely no excuse for addressing your cover letter to the wrong person. If no name is provided, omit it completely and list your name and targeted position.

4. Not tailoring the cover letter to the company or job you’re applying to.

The hiring manager will know if you’re using a generic, ‘one size fits all’ cover letter. And they won’t be impressed. “Customize each cover letter targeting the specified job description,” advises Nicolai. “A master cover letter is fine to use as a template or outline, but always remember to tailor it.”

5. Forgetting to replace a company name or job title.

If you’re applying for job after job and tailoring your cover letter to each one (like you should be!) you may find yourself replacing words, names, and titles — rather than rewriting your cover letter from scratch over and over again — to save time. But be very careful when you do this. If you forget to replace the company name or job title, this will be a huge turn off to the employer you send it to.

cover letterAndrew Burton/Getty ImagesRead your cover letter carefully before you hit ‘submit.’

6. Being too humble.

“Some candidates may think full disclosure is to be commended when in fact it can work against the person,” Nicolai explains. “For instance, saying something like, ‘While I do not possess 15 years in leadership, I have led teams and filled in for supervisors when on vacation,’ won’t impress.”

Talk up what you have achieved and do so with confidence. For example, something like this might work better: “I have led teams for 15 years throughout many phases in my current company. With each leadership experience, I gained XYZ.”

7. Being too confident.

While you don’t want to be too humble, you also don’t want to come off as egotistical.

“It can be easy or tempting to go overboard boasting about how smart or talented you are in your cover letter,” she says. “But don’t.” Instead, stay focused on your fact-based achievements and tone it down on the superlatives. “Motivate with a balanced approach and let the reader figure out on their own just how fabulous you really are.”

8. Lying.

This is pretty obvious — but don’t fib. Ever.

It doesn’t help anyone, and they will find out eventually.

9. Justifying why you were part of a layoff or why you quit your job.

Candidates need to focus on the here and now. “Employer want current information, succinctly,” says Nicolai. “Why you were laid off or why you quit is not important. This becomes an immediate red flag and the perception of the hiring manager tends to be, ‘this person isn’t quite ready to move forward’ or ‘there are a lot of issues that are unresolved,’ and those aren’t the messages you want to send.”

10. Listing references.

Save the references for the end of the process. The cover letter is no place to start listing references or snippets from your latest review. “These names may have meaning to you, but to the hiring leader, these are unknown entities and they’re simply a waste of space,” says Nicolai.

From:
Read more: http://www.businessinsider.com/biggest-cover-letter-mistakes-2015-3#ixzz3dIRuXGon

sub-typing of depression in clinical settings

Dr. Adel Serag is a senior consultant psychiatrist in Fakeeh hospital and Senior Consultant and fellow of psychiatry , Institute of psychiatry, Ain Shams University.

A review lecture about the sub-typing of depression and how this will affect positively in clinical description and hence probably the medication. The lecture was given April 2015 during 11th international annual psychiatric congress, Jeddah , Saudi Arabia.

Problems of Mental illness Stigma and co-morbidity

Norman Sartorius, M.D., M.A., D.P.M., Ph.D., FRC. Psych.
Dr Norman Sartorius, MD, MA, DPM, PhD, FRCPsych, obtained his M.D. in Zagreb (Croatia).
He specialized in neurology and psychiatry and subsequently obtained a Masters Degree and a
Doctorate in psychology (Ph.D.). He carried out clinical work and research and taught at graduate
and postgraduate levels at the University of Zagreb, at the Institute of Psychiatry in London, at
the University of Geneva and elsewhere.

Dr Sartorius joined the World Health Organization (WHO) in 1967 and soon assumed charge of
the programme of epidemiology and in social psychiatry. He was also principal investigator of
several major international studies on schizophrenia, on depression and on health service
delivery. In 1977, he was appointed Director of the Division of Mental Health of WHO, a
position which he held until mid-1993. In June 1993 Professor Sartorius was elected President of
the World Psychiatric Association (WPA) and served as President-elect and then President until
August 1999. In January 1999, Professor Sartorius took up his functions as President of the
Association of European Psychiatrists (AEP) and is now the President of the International
Association for the Promotion of Mental Health Programmes and President of the Board of the
Prize of Geneva Foundation. Dr Sartorius holds professorial appointments at the Universities of
London, Prague and Zagreb and at several other universities in the USA and China. He is a
Senior Associate of the Faculty of the Johns Hopkins School of Public Health in Baltimore,
Maryland.

Professor Sartorius has published more than 300 articles in s

How to detox your body at home:

Detox your body

1. Start your day with a glass of birch sap.

Loaded with vitamin C, birch sap is a sweet liquid from birch stress. I find that this drinking this helps me feel lighter and refreshed.

2. Eat foods rich in potassium citrate.

They can help alkalize the body. Opt for prunes, avocados, raisins, peaches, strawberries, spinach, apples or fresh mushrooms.

3. Add garlic to your meals as often as possible.

It’s great for you. Garlic is an antioxidant that’s been shown to help the immune system.

4. Drink nettle tea.

Available in most health food stores, this herbal tea is soothing and I find that this helps my digestion.

5. Treat yourself at the spa.

Get a sports massage or enjoy the sauna every now and then. These spa treatments really do keep you healthy!

6. Do a castor oil pack.

Soak a towel in cold-pressed castor oil, ring it out, and put it on your abdomen. Place a hot water bottle on top and lie down for 30 minutes. (Want to know more about the wonders of castor oil? Start here.)

7. Try oil pulling.

Mix 1 teaspoon of organic coconut oil with 1 drop of essential oil. Swish around in your mouth for 10 minutes. (Have no idea what oil pulling is? Start here.)

8. Stimulate your lymphatic system with dry skin brushing twice a day.

Brush your naked body with a natural bristle brush starting with your feet and working towards your heart. Then take a shower alternating between hot and cold water.

9. Detox with psyllium husk.

Grind 1 teaspoon of psyllium husk in a blender. Mix into an 8-ounce glass of water and drink daily for two weeks. Psyllium husk is loaded with fiber and available at most health food stores. Be sure you’re drinking at least two quarts of water a day.

Always talk to your health care practitioner before making any dietary changes or before introducing supplements into your diet.

Detox your cleaning cabinets

10. Make all-purpose cleaner.

In an empty spray bottle, mix warm water with 2 Tablespoons baking soda, 1 Tablespoon white vinegar and 10 drops lavender oil. Use like regular cleaner.

11. Clean your toilet the non-toxic way.

Before going to bed, pour a glass of white vinegar into the toilet bowl. Scrub briefly and the bowl will be cleaner the next morning.

12. Make a DIY fridge air freshener

Put a small bowl with freshly ground coffee into your fridge to eliminate bad smells.

13. Try this recipe for drain pipe cleaner.

Mix equal parts white vinegar, salt and baking soda in a bottle and slowly pour into dirty drains. Repeat if necessary.

14. Soften up your fabric softener.

Mix 8 cups of coarse salt with 50 drops of your favorite essential oil(s). Store in an airtight container and add 6 Tablespoons to your wash loads.

15. Clean your washing machine.

Pour a glass of white vinegar into your washing machine and run a complete cycle.

16. Make DIY wipes.

Cut old white T-shirts or sheets into equal-sized pieces. Put in a bucket with 2 cups of water, 5 Tablespoons white vinegar and 1 Tablespoon organic liquid soap until soaked. Keep in an airtight container.

17. Make an all-natural herbicide.

Bring 4 cups of water to boil and mix with 5 Tablespoons vinegar and 2 teaspoons salt. Store in a spray bottle and use like regular herbicide.

Detox your personal products

18. Treat your teeth with DIY toothpaste.

Grind 2 cups of xylitol in a high-speed blender. Add two cups of melted coconut oil and 1 cup of baking soda. Blend. Pour into an airtight container and add a couple of drops peppermint oil.

19. Try DIY deodorant.

Make another batch of toothpaste but add your favorite essential oil. Best deodorant ever! (Not ready to make your own? Here are six natural ones to try.)

20. Use gentler shampoo.

Use a bar of organic castile soap to wash your hair. This also works great as shaving foam

21. Care for your split ends.

Before washing your hair, massage half a teaspoon olive oil into dry and split ends. Repeat weekly.

22. Pamper your hair with a mask.

Twice a month, massage argan oil into your scalp and hair. Cover with a towel and leave on for an hour.

23. Treat dandruff holistically.

Mix 1 Tablespoon olive oil with 2 drops essential citrus oil. Massage into your scalp for a couple of minutes, and then wash your hair.

24. Cleanse your face with a vitamin exfoliator.

Mix a teaspoon of vitamin C powder with some almond milk. Massage the paste into your face, rinse and apply some rosewater. (I buy my vitamin C and my rosewater from Amazon.com.)

25. Treat your dry hands or heels.

Dissolve 2 Tablespoons of baking soda in 4 cups of warm water and soak your hands or heels in it for 10 minutes.

26. Make this anti-acne mask.

Mix 2 Tablespoons raw honey with 1 Tablespoon Bentonite Clay, which is a healing clay that’s very popular in Germany. Apply the paste on your face and rinse after 20 minutes.

 

Long term treatment of Schizophrenia: Dr. Mohamed Swuidan

Dr. Mohammad Alsuwaidan is an assistant professor of psychiatry at both Kuwait University and the University of Toronto, where he is cross-appointed to the divisions of Brain Therapeutics and Philosophy, Humanities and Educational Scholarship. He is the Founding Director of the Mood & Anxiety Disorders Program at Mubarak Al-Kabeer Hospital.

 

 

Research review of long term management of schizophrenia and adherence of patients to medication. Review was presented by Dr. Mohamed Swuidan, last Apritl 2015 , 11th Annual Saudi German hospital Congress, in Jeddah.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Translational Psychiatry from bench to side bed

Translational Psychiatry from bench to side bed

Translational Psychiatry from bench to side bed, a lecture given by Prof. Dr. Afaf Hamed , April 2015, In I11th Psychiatricinternational congress in Jeddah

Afaf Hamed Khalil
Current Post
Professor of Psychiatry, Faculty of Medicine, Ain Shams University
Sub-Specialty
General Adult, Adolescent and Addiction Psychiatry

DSM 5 – Fully expalined -Task Force Members

 

Darrel A. REGIER

Darrel A. Regier, M.D., M.P.H. Director, APA Division of Research Executive Director, APIRE Vice-Chair, DSM-V Task Force American Psychiatric Association Virginia, USA Email: [email protected] Regier, M.D., M.P.H has served for the past ten years as Executive Director of the American Psychiatric Institute for Research and Education (APIRE), as well as Director, Division of Research at the American Psychiatric Association (APA). A principle responsibility has been to coordinate the maintenance and revision plans for the APA’s Diagnostic and Statistical Manual. In 2006, he was named Vice-Chair of the DSM-5 Revision Task Force to work jointly with the Task Force Chair, Dr. David Kupfer. Dr. Regier originally received his medical degree from the Indiana University School of Medicine and completed his medical internship at Montefiore Hospital in the Bronx. After a psychiatry residency at the Massachusetts General Hospital (MGH)/Harvard Medical School, he completed his research training at the Harvard School of Public Health and a fellowship at MGH. At the completion of his NIMH service, Dr. Regier retired as a Rear Admiral and Assistant Surgeon General in the Commissioned Corps of the United States Public Health Service.Dr. Regier completed 25 years at the National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH), during which time he directed three research divisions in the areas of epidemiology, prevention, clinical research, and health services research. He initiated the development of several areas of research including national surveys of prevalence of mental disorders, mental health service use in primary care and specialty settings, the organization and financing of such services, and international programs on the classification of mental disorders with the World Health Organization. Dr. Regier served as the Scientific Coordinator/Director for four National Advisory Mental Health Council reports to Congress on mental health insurance parity, and was a section editor of the Surgeon’s General’s Report on Mental Health.

http://www.dsm5.org/MEETUS/Pages/TaskForceMembers.aspx

 

 

 

 

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4 Exercises For Sciatica Pain Relief

1. Piriformis Stretch

Laying on your back, place both feet flat on the floor with knees bent. Rest your right ankle over the left knee and pull the left thigh toward your chest.

Hold stretch for 30 seconds. Repeat on the other side.

Remember to keep the top foot flexed to protect your knee.

2. Seated Hip Stretch

While in a seated position, cross your right leg over your straightened left leg.

Hug your right knee with your left arm, making sure to keep your back straight.

Hold this stretch for 30-60 seconds, and then repeat on the opposite side.

3. Pigeon Pose

Start in Downward-Facing Dog pose with your feet together.

Draw your right knee forward and turn it out to the right so your right leg is bent and your left leg is extended straight behind you. Slowly lower both legs.

Hold the position for five to ten breaths, then switch to the other side.

4. Self-Trigger Point Therapy

Performing self trigger-point therapy using a lacrosse or tennis ball can be very effective at delivering sciatica pain relief.

All you have to do is find a painful spot in the glutes, place the ball at that location and then relax your body into the ball.

Hold this position for 30-60 seconds or until you notice a significant reduction in pain. Move to the next painful spot. The total time spent on this exercise should be between 5-10 minutes.

Practicing these four exercises once or twice a day can definitely bring you much needed sciatica pain relief.

 

 

 

source:

http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-18298/4-exercises-for-sciatica-pain-relief.html

strengthen your core

These simple items can help you

You needn’t spend a cent on fancy equipment to get a good workout. A standing core workout and floor core workout rely on body weight alone. With the help of some simple equipment, you can diversify and ramp up your workouts

. To start, consider buying only what you need for the specific workout you’d like to do.

If you have a gym membership, use the facility’s equipment. Here is a description of all of the equipment used in the six workouts designed by Harvard experts and found in our report Core Excerises.

  • Chair.

  • dining-chairs
  • Choose a sturdy chair that won’t tip over easily. A plain wooden dining chair without arms or heavy padding works well.

  • Mat.

  • YogaMat yoga-mat-rolled-cropped
  • Use a nonslip, well-padded mat. Yoga mats are readily available. A thick carpet or towels will do in a pinch.

  • Yoga strap.

  • YSN96

 

 

 

 

  • Yoga-Straps-Photos

 

 

  • This is a non-elastic cotton or nylon strap of six feet or longer that helps you position your body properly during certain stretches, or while doing the easier variation of a stretch. Choose a strap with a D-ring or buckle fastener on one end. This allows you to put a loop around a foot or leg and then grasp the other end of the strap.

 

 

 

  • Medicine balls.

  • MedBalls Weight Balls woman-crunches-swiss-ball
  • Similar in size to a soccer ball or basketball, medicine balls come in different weights. Some have a handle on top. A 4-pound to 6-pound medicine ball is a good start for most people.

  • Bosu.

  • squat2 squat bosu-dynamic-plank
  • A Bosu Balance Trainer is essentially half a stability ball mounted on a heavy rubber platform that holds the ball firmly in place.

من هو الانسان الطبيعي الخالي من الأمراض النفسية

يقولون انه الانسان القادر على العمل و العطاء و الانتاج

أو يكون الانسان القادر على حب البشر والعمل من أجلهم واستقبال حبهم له

أو يكون الانسان الموازن في أفكاره و مشاعره و سلوكياته

أو الانسان الواقعي الذي يعمل و يعيش على أرض الواقع

و اختلف العلماء في ذلك كثيرا ولكن وقفوا مليا عن تعريف الانسان الطبيعي

انه هو القادر على العمل و الانتاج و التعلم

kidscientist_0SHOOMtrainingفالانسان مخلوق يتعلم

 وخلق ليتعلم و يعرف ولا يتوقف عن التعلم و التعليم و المعرفة

” وعلم آدم الأسماء كلها ” …البقرة 31

وكانت تلك معجزة آدم عليه السلام و كذلك الآدمي الذي تعلم و تكلم و أنبأ الملائكة بأسمائهم

 

ونحن نتعلم أسماء و مصطلحات و قوانين فاذا كانت حصيلتك ألف اسم أم مصطلح طبي أو قانوني أو رياضي أو هندسي أو سياسي ….مثلا تعرفهم اسما و شكلا و مهارة فانت أفضل ممن هو يعلم أقل من ذلك …ولكنك أدنى ممن يعلم أكثر من ذلك و لاحظ أن هذه الأسماء و المهارات التي تعلمتها تعمل بها وبدونها لا تستطيع ان تسعى الى رزقك  ولذلك فأنت تتعلم لتعمل بما تعلمت لترتزق و تنتج بما تعمل

وكذلك يجب ان تطور ما تعلمته و ترتقي به و تحدث منه حتى تستطيع ان تواكب تتطور العلم و العمل وتكون في سعى دائم للرزق

واذا توققت قدرة هذا المخلوق عن تلقي العلم و المعرفة بأي شكل وفي أي عمر منذ ولادته و حتى فناءه  فهو مريض

 وهذا هو المرض النفسي أو العقلي

خلل في الانتباه أو التركيز أو التفكير او الشعور أو السلوك يعيق قدرتك على التعليم و المعرفة

وكونك  تعرف و تتعلم فأنت تعبد ربك

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واذا قلنا انه في المرحلة الطلابية من حياة الانسان التعلم هو العمل و الانتاج

لذا سيكون الانسان الطبيعي

هو القادر على التعلم والتعليم يعني المعرفه

لنقف عن الآيه

“وَمَا خَلَقْتُ الْجِنَّ وَالإِنسَ إِلاَّ لِيَعْبُدُونِ”…….. الذاريات 56

 

قرأها ابن أبي العباس “الا ليعرفون” و كأن العبادة هي المعرفة و عدم التوقف عن التعلم والعلم ولكن العبادة هي طاعة العابد للمعبود

 ولكي يكون التعلم عبادة يجب أن يكون في طاعة الله و ولذا لا يطلب العلم لا لتتمارى به و لا تتراءى  به و لا تتبارى به و لكن يطلب العلم لوجه الله

و من يطلب العلم ليصيب به غرضا من أغراض الدنيا لعصى عليه العلم حتى يكون لوجه الله

وقال رسول الله صلى الله عليه و سلم

“من التمس طريقا للعلم سهل الله له طريقا للجنة”

أي أن طريق الجنه هو طريق العبادة أو طريق المعرفة هو طريق العلم

اذا

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