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ويتعلم الطفل اللغة من أبيه و أمه و أقاربه والمحيطين به أي من الأهل وبعد فترة طبعا من التليفزيون و لكن لنا فيها وقفة
و بالطيع الأباء تعلمو اللغة من أبائهم
والأجداد من أبائهم و هكذا حتى تصل الى آدم عليه السلام .. فمن علمه
وقال المفسرون لهذه اآية انه تعلمها من جبريل عليه السلام و لاحظ الأسماء و ليس الأفعال .. أي مسميات الأشياء .. يخزنها أولا ويشير اليها عند السؤال و الحاجة
و يستدل على سلامة الاستماع انه يستدير نحو الأصوات المألوفة كصوت الأم وغيره و يفزع او يدهش أو يفاجأ للأصوات العالية و الضوضاء ويصدر منه صوت البكاء مع الولادة و يلتفت بالعين و يحرك الشفتان و اللسان
ومن 3- 6 أشهر يسعد بالأغاني و الحورات من حوله و يلتفت اليها
phonemes ثم تظهر منه الفونيم
و مع نفسه ينخرط في الهمهمة babling و هي نغمات صوتية مختلطة و مشوشة
و يلبي الطلب عند النداء أو الالتماس مثل “هات القميص ” واللفظ المركب مثل هات القميص الأحمر و لكن لا ينطقها .. و يشير اليه ثانيا عندما يحتاج الى استعمالها وان لم يحتاج اليها لن يلفظها
وعند سنة و نصف يستمع لأسمه و يجيب و يلتفت للتعليمات
وعند العام و نصف وما بعدها يصل الى عشرين كلمة وبنهاية العام الثاني يصل الى 50 كلمة مستعملة
وفي العام الثاني الى الثالث يتخطى حاجز ال 300 كلمة و معه جمل مركبة من كلمتين الى 3 معا مثل بابا فين – عايز ايه – عايز آكل – عايز أشرب – فين الميه
و يستعمل أدوات الاستفهام و يستطيع استعمال فوق و تحت و على و من وفي و قريب و بعيد و طويل و قصير في محلها الصحيح
و يلفظ و يستعمل الضمائر و الاشارة مثل أنا و هو و هي و هم
و قد تتآكل مخارج الحروف مثل
الراء و الشين والخاء و الزاي
ومن 3-4 سنوات يستمتع بالقصص و الروايات و يطلبها و يبادر بالحديث و يتوقف عند الطلب و يوافق و يعترض و تصل حصيلته الى أكثر من 500 كلمة
ومن 4-5 سوات يستطيع الرواية البسيطة و يقول جملة مركبة من 5-6 كلمات
و من ليس لديه سمع يفقد النطق لأن مراكز المخ لم تلتقط ما تنطقه
قمّة هرم البناء الإحصائي للقرآن العظيم يرى بوضوح 114 سورة مترابطة البناء محكمة التنسيق، تنبثق منها 6236 آية بشكل انسيابي سلس، ثم تتسع القاعدة لتستوعب 77800 كلمة مترابطة بعضها ببعض، ومتصلة بما فوقها، وتحتلها من خلال روابط عنكبوتية رأسية وأفقية، متنوعة ومتعددة، غاية في الدقة والإحكام، ثم تتسع أكثر فأكثر لتستوعب ما يزيد على 330 ألف حرفًا، تمثل وحدات بناء قاعدة هذا الهرم القرآني العملاق! وإن لبنات هذا البناء جميعها مترابطة، بحيث لا يمكن بأي حال من الأحوال تقديم أيّ منها أو تأخيره!
وتتصل مكوّنات هذا البناء القرآني جميعها، حرفًا وحركة وتشكيلًا وتنقيطًا، مرورًا بالكلمة والآية والموضوع ثم السورة وترتيبها في المصحف وعدد آياتها، كل ذلك متصل بعضه ببعض، من أوَّله إلى آخره، ومن أسفله إلى أعلاه، من خلال نسيج رقمي متعدد الروابط والتشعّبات، ويشكّل في مجمله المنظومة الإحصائية القرآنية.
لا حظ أن طفل الانجليزية حصيلته 3000 كلمة و حتى عمر ال 15 سنة
§الدوار يزداد و الخوف يسيطر عليه “أريد طبيبا فورا” … الدوار يزداد ” أريد طبيبا فورا!” شعور و إحساس مخيف من الموت ! إلى هذا الحد! نعم! يترقب الموت … تمضي دقائق ثقيلة ربما تمتد إلى نصف ساعة أو أكثر قليلا وتنحسر الحالة تلقائيا …
القلق و الاستعداد
The application of sport psychology can aid in the peak of the acquisition, development and performance of fundamental athletic skills. |
What is sport psychology? |
It is the application of psychological principles and techniques to assist athletes in developing fundemental athletic skills and enhancing performance in compettive situations. |
What does sport psychologist do? |
Help the athletes to achieving the optimum performances and to overcome their troubles. |
Coping with personal problems
The three fundamental sports psychology tools:
Goal Setting |
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Goal setting is a hugely powerful technique that can yield strong returns in all areas of your life. At its simplest level the process of setting goals and targets allows you to choose where you want to go in life. By knowing what you want to achieve, you know what you have to concentrate on and improve, and what is merely a distraction. Goal setting gives you long-term vision and short-term motivation. By setting sharp, clearly defined goals, you can measure and take pride in the achievement of those goals. You can see forward progress in what might previously have seemed a long pointless grind. | |
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Improve self-confidence…How?▼ |
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By setting goals, and measuring their achievement, you are able to see what you have done and what you are capable of. The process of achieving goals and seeing their achievement gives you the confidence and self-belief that you need that you will be able to achieve higher and more difficult goals |
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Your Commitment to the Sport: The first step in setting sporting goals is to decide your level of commitment to your sport. If you want nothing more than a bit of fun every now and again, then you should have different goals from someone who has decided to dedicate his or her life to achieving excellence in the sport. |
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Setting Goals Effectively | The way in which you set goal strongly affects their effectiveness. Before you start to set goals, you should have set the background of goal setting by:
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General Guidelines
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Set Performance, not Outcome Goals |
This is very important. You should take care to set goals over which you have as much control as possible – there is nothing as dispiriting as failing to achieve a personal goal for reasons beyond your control such as poor judging, bad weather, injury, excellence in other athletes, or just plain bad luck. Goals based on outcomes are extremely vulnerable to things beyond your control. If you base your goals on personal performance targets or skills to be acquired, then you can keep control over the achievement of your goals and draw satisfaction from them. For example, you might achieve a personal best time, but still be disqualified as a result of a poor judging decision. If you set an outcome goal of being in the top three, then this will be a defeat. If you set a performance goal of achieving a particular time, then you will have achieved the goal and can draw satisfaction and self-confidence from its achievement. Set specific measurable goals. If you achieve all conditions of a measurable goal, then you can be confident and comfortable in its achievement. If you consistently fail to meet a measurable goal, then you can adjust it or analyse the reason for failure and take appropriate action to improve skills. | |
Set Specific Goals |
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Setting realistic goals: | ||
Setting high goals |
Goals may be set unrealistically high for the following reasons:
Goals can be set too low because:
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Setting Goals Too Low |
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Setting Goals at the Right Level |
Setting goals at the correct level is a skill that is acquired by practice.You should set goals so that they are slightly out of your immediate grasp, but not so far that there is no hope of achieving them: no-one will put serious effort into achieving a goal that they believe is unrealistic. However, remember that the belief that a goal is unrealistic may be incorrect. Such a belief can be changed by effective use of imagery.Personal factors such as tiredness, injury, stage in the season, etc. should be taken into account when goals are set. | |
Achieving Goals and Feedback | |
Achieving Goals | When you have achieved a goal, take the time to enjoy the satisfaction of having achieved the goal. Absorb the implications of the goal achievement, and observe the progress you have made towards other goals.If the goal was a significant one, or one that you had worked towards for some time, take the opportunity to reward yourself appropriately. |
Feedback: Failure |
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Where you have failed to reach a goal, ensure that you learn the lessons of the failure. These may be:
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Use this information to adjust the goal if it was set too high, or to set goals to acquire new skills or build stamina. Feeding back like this turns everything into a positive learning experience – even failing to meet a goal is a step forward towards perfect technique!Remember that the fact of trying something, even if it does not work, often opens doors that would otherwise have remained closed | ||
Feedback: Success |
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Where you have achieved a goal this should feed back into your next goals:
Remember too that goals change as you mature – adjust them regularly to reflect this growth in your personality. If goals do not hold any attraction any longer, then let them go – goal setting is your servant, not your master. It should bring you real pleasure, satisfaction and achievement |
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Summary of Goal Setting: | ||
Goal setting is an important method of:
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Introduction to Imagery and Simulation
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. Much of the process of learning and improving sporting reflexes and skills is the laying down, modification, and strengthening of nerve pathways in our body and brains. Some of these nerve pathways lie outside out brain in nerves of the body and spine. These need to be trained by physical training. Many of the pathways, however, lie within the brain. These pathways can be effectively trained by the use of mental techniques such as imagery and simulation.. | |
Imagery |
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What is imagery? | Imagery is the process by which you can create, modify or strengthen pathways important to the co-ordination of your muscles, by training purely within your mind. Imagination is the driving force of imagery |
Principle ? | Imagery rests on the important principle that you can exercise these parts of your brain with inputs from your imagination rather that from your senses: the parts of the brain that you train with imagery experience imagined and real inputs similarly, with the real inputs being merely more vividly experienced |
So in its least effective form you can use imagery merely as a substitute for real practice to train the parts of your mind that it can reach. Even at this inferior level of use imagery is useful training where:
However just to use imagery for the reasons above is to undervalue its effectiveness grossly. |
Unleashing the Power of Imagery | |||
The real power of imagery lies in a number of much more sophisticated points: | |||
Imagery can also be used to affect some aspects of the ‘involuntary’ responses of your body such as releases of adrenaline. This is most highly developed in Eastern mystics, who use imagery in a highly effective way to significantly reduce e.g. heart beat rate or oxygen consumption |
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You can use imagery in a number of important ways:
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Imagery works best as a way of practising and improving known skills, with known feelings and body positions. Whether or not it is an effective method or acquiring completely new skills is a matter of debate |
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Using imagery in training: |
You can significantly improve the quality of your training sessions by effective use of imagery. By performing the skill being practiced in your mind before you execute it, you can focus on all the important parts of the skill. For example, if a golfer images a perfect golf swing before he actually carries one out, he is more likely to remember all the points that go into making a good swing, and maintain focus throughout it.Imaging of an activity before its execution has the following advantages:
In addition imagery can be used in training to practise sports psychology skills. For example, you might imagine appearing before a large hostile crowd, and experience the stress and anxiety symptoms that you might expect. Within your mind you can practise the stress management skills that will be explained later. You might use imagery to practise pushing through pain barriers, or might practise keeping technique good when you imagine that your limbs feel exhausted. Alternatively you might use imagery to rehearse and perfect strategies that will be used during a real performance |
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Learning to use imagery |
The following points will help with learning to use imagery effectively:Imagery should be as vivid as possible:A strong and potent image will be more effective and ‘real’ than a weak one when it is presented to the appropriate nerve pathways in your brain. Images can be made more real by:
Start gently and use imagery systematically:As with most sports psychology techniques, it is often best to start gently so that the basic skills can be fully learned in a low stress environment. This means that you can be more confident of the effectiveness of these skills when you need to put them to the test.Initially start using only 5 minutes of imagery a day, perhaps when you have just got into bed, or when you wake up in the morning. The number of minutes can be expanded as time goes on: typically many champions will do 15 minutes/day, although this may go as high as 1 hour/day just before a major competition. Similarly, start using imagery in a quiet, relaxed environment in which there are few distractions. Slowly experiment with using it in increasingly disturbed situations until you are comfortable with using imagery in the most distracting environments such as high level events. It is important too to use imagery systematically: get into the habit of practising techniques in your mind before executing the in practice, and of using stress management imagery routinely. A habitual routine use of imagery will bring its benefits almost automatically when you are under stress |
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Simulation |
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You should therefore use simulation and imagery together for maximum effect. |
Simulation is similar to imagery in that it seeks to improve the quality of training by teaching your brain to cope with circumstances that would not be otherwise met until an important competition was reached. Simulation, however, is carried out by making the your physical training circumstances as similar as possible to the ‘real thing’ – for example by bringing in crowds of spectators, by having performances judged, or by inviting press to a training session. In many ways simulation is superior to imagery in training, as the stresses introduced are often more vivid because they exist in reality. However simulation requires much greater resources of time and effort to set up and implement, and necessarily is less flexible in terms of the range of eventualities that can be practised for. | ||||
Simulation seeks to make your training environment as similar to the competition environment as possible.While imagery relies on use of imagination, simulation relies on manipulation of the training environment by actually recreating the stresses under which you will perform.Effectively, you can consider normal training only to train muscles and nerve pathways directly involved in the control of muscles. Imagery is a good way of training these nerve pathways in the brain, as well as those related to performance and sports psychology. It does not train muscles and body nerves nearly as effectively.
Simulation, however, seeks to train all parts of your brain and body by helping you to physically perform the skills being trained under a physical environment that recreates all the stresses and distractions of competition. This helps you to develop the mental skills that stop you ‘choking under pressure’ – stress management, distraction management, goal focus and imagery. It enables you to actually feel that you have been in a novel situation before. Military training uses simulation in exactly the same way to teach soldiers to handle the intense psychological stresses of combat. |
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You can try introducing the following stresses into a training session to make a practice as realisitic as possible: |
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If you simulate conditions that are much worse than the real conditions under which you will perform, then you will have the following advantages:
You can also use simulation, in the form of role-play to handle non-sporting stresses associated with performance, such as press interviews, etc. While only top athletes may have the resources to use all aspects of simulation in their training sessions, you should be able to use some aspects effectively to help you prepare to give maximum performance under difficult physical and psychological conditions. |
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Improving Technique |
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Imagery and simulation can be used effectively in improving technique, particularly when used in conjunction with close study of the technique of high level performers in your sport. By selecting athletes whose performance you admire in a particular exercise, and either watching or videoing them executing technique, you can build see how they execute every stage of a skill. Using a video recorder you can slow the action down so that the components of the skill can be isolated.
Once you have done this you can practise these components of the skill being observed, and can build them up into a complex action or a good image of the skill as it should be executed. |
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Your body is a sophisticated system powered by muscles and controlled by nerves, most of which are in the brain. The nerve pathways in your brain that are most important in sport are trained by presenting them either with real stimuli or, almost as effectively, with vividly imagined images.
Imagery is the process of using your imagination to create these vivid images which train the important mental pathways in your mind. At its most menial level, imagery can be used to practise this ‘body control center’ when no other method of practice is available. At a more sophisticated level you can use it to enhance your self-confidence, to prepare for eventualities that cannot be simulated in reality, to practise other sports psychology skills, to practise and improve technique, and to focus before a skill is executed.
Simulation is similar to imagery in that it is used to present nerve pathways in your brain with experiences that train them. In the case of simulation, however, the stimuli come through your senses, not from your imagination. Simulation works by making your training sessions as close to the final performance as possible by introducing spectators, judges, distractions and stress inducers so that you can learn to deal with them. Simulation trains not only the nerves in your brain, but also those in the rest of your body as you physically perform the skills being trained.
Imagery and simulation can be used together at the same time to create an intensely realistic pre-experience of an important competition or event. This gives you the feeling of having been there before, with the confidence and competence that comes with it.
Focus and Flow are at the heart of Sports Psychology:
When you are in a state of flow, focussing intensely on the execution of skills, you will give your best performances. You enter a state of almost Zen-like meditation in which mood, distraction and different stressors simply have no place in your consciousness. You are free to execute skills just as you have trained to execute them. This is an immensely satisfying state to achieve.
The qualities of flow are:
This section of Mind Tools will explain how to achieve flow and focus, and will explain how to deal with the main things that interfere with it. These are poor mood control, lack of ability to manage distraction and, most importantly, how to handle and use stress
This section briefly explains the necessary theory behind the way in which your brain works. This will put subsequent sections into context. There are two main things you need to understand:
Your brain is a hugely complex system made up of a vast number of components interacting in a hugely complex and sophisticated way. Much of its function is still not understood.
You will probably be aware of the theory that function of the brain is separated into left and right hemisphere functions. This theory grossly oversimplifies the complexity of brain function. It does, however, provide us with a useful model to apply to sports psychology that has a feeling of intuitive correctness.
This model holds that different high level functions of your brain are localised into either the left side or the right side in the following way:
The Left Brain (often called the Analyser) tends to be dominant, as skills it is responsible for are most intensively trained during education. This part of the brain analyses and understands new skills, and examines existing technique or attitudes for errors and faults. This part of the brain is highly effective during training in improving technique.
The Right Brain (called the Integrator) controls the best performance of a skill by integrating all the components of the skill into one flowing movement in which all the isolated components of the skill work together.
This is important because either your analyser or your integrator should be dominant in different circumstances:
Effectively, you have achieved ‘flow’ when your integrator is in complete control of a performance, and is not being distracted either by analysis from the left side of your brain, or by external factors.
Your brain has evolved to protect you from danger. An important part of this is the response that draws your attention to unexpected or unusual stimuli. These might, for example, indicate that a predator is about to strike. Things that indicate danger might be:
In a natural environment, this drawing of attention is very important for survival. However in a modern sporting environment these are distractions that break flow. Loud noises can come from cheering crowds. Flashes of light can come from flash photography. Movement can come from performers in unrelated events, etc.
Part of learning flow is learning to isolate the important stimuli for the sport from the irrelevant ones that cause distraction. This will involve learning to selectively override your brains natural reaction to stimuli.
Flow is easiest to achieve when:
Perhaps the most systematic approach to achieving focus and flow so far is that used in oriental martial arts, such as Karate or Kendo. These adopt a Zen approach to concentration where the fighter is in a state of almost pure flow.
In these sports the competitor seeks to lose all distractions of ego, analysis and from surroundings, immersing him or herself completely within the activity.
The following things in particular are avoided:
Effectively Western Sports psychology is now advocating an almost identical set of strategies through a skills based approach. If, however, you appreciate a mystical approach, you may appreciate the Zen approach to focus.
Different sports, and different parts or positions in sports, require attention to be focussed on different skills and different cues.
Where success relies on a physical skill being executed, then focus on that skill.
In other cases, you may have to make a tactical appreciation before execution of the skill. The appropriate attention should be paid to this.
Alternatively where an opponent is involved, study and learn the cues that give away his or her intentions. For example, foot movements, glances in a particular direction or tensing of shoulder muscles can give away the fact that someone is about to throw a punch. Similarly the opponent may give cues as to defensive tactics to be used which may be picked up.
The focus requirements and cues to look for will differ from sport to sport and position to position. You can analyse them effectively by studying video footage of performance. This can be slowed down so that all cues can be examined. You can also pick up information on cues from books or videos on your sport.
By understanding the cues to look for, you can separate out the things to which attention should be directed from the clutter of irrelevant stimuli that occur in a competition environment.
You can improve focus by practice and training, much like any other skill.
You can practise it at its simplest almost as a form of meditation – firstly study an object for some time: get completely involved with it, in its shape, colour, texture, smell, etc. Then practise switching the focus to a different object, being completely involved in this, and nothing else.
Similarly you can practise focus on sounds, listening to them and then switching focus to other sounds.
This concentrated attention helps you to feel what sporting focus feels like. The rapid switching to another thing practises your ability to switch focus.
In normal training, visualise the performance of a skill using imagery, then focus on its execution as you actually perform it. Practise doing the skill without any analysis. Experience the feeling of flow. Associate this feeling of flow with a trigger word in your mind.
One thing to watch out for as you get better at a sport is loss of focus. This can happen for two main reasons:
You may find that these focus problems have their root in goal setting: if you are setting outcome goals such as ‘coming first’, then this will not be challenging if you win easily.
This can be prevented by setting performance goals that are sufficiently difficult to maintain motivation, a sense of being stretched and concentration on improving skills even when competition is weak.
Bad moods damage your motivation to succeed in training or competition. They make you more prone to negative thinking, and cause distraction, often as you trigger bad moods in other people. Bad moods emerge as bad temper, unhappiness, lethargy and sluggishness.
If you are in a good mood, then even dull training can be enjoyable.
Your mood is completely under your control – bad moods are an indulgence you cannot afford. You can improve your mood in the following ways:
Distraction is damaging to your performance because it interferes with your ability to focus and disrupts flow. It interferes with the attention that you need to apply to maintain good technique. This causes stress and consumes mental energy that is better applied elsewhere.
This section will teach you skills for overcoming distraction
Distraction can come from a number of sources, both internal and external, such as:
You can prepare for and deal with all of these sources of distraction.
Coping with distractions and minor irritations is mainly a matter of attitude – you can either dwell on them and blow them up out of all proportion to their significance, or you can accept them and bypass them. If you waste mental energy fretting over a trivial problem, then this is energy that cannot be spent maintaining good technique (hence preserving physical energy). Over long events or competitions, this wastage of mental energy can seriously damage your performance.
What is worth remembering is that when you are distracted, lose concentration and make a mistake, you have not lost your skills. All you have lost is your focus.
The following points may help you to deal with distractions:
Where you are not feeling motivated towards an event, either because you are bored by it, because there is no serious competition or because you are tired, you may need to psych yourself up. This will raise your level of arousal so that you can perform effectively.
The following techniques can be used to psych up:
This section shows you effective methods of reducing stress to a level where you can perform most effectively. The techniques that you select depend on the cause of the stress and the situation in which the stress occurs.
In choosing methods to combat stress, it is worth asking yourself where the stress comes from: if outside factors such as relationship difficulties are causing stress, then a positive thinking or imagery based technique may be effective. If the stress is based on the feeling of adrenaline in the body, then it may be effective purely to relax the body and slow the flow of adrenaline.
As with all sports psychology skills, the effectiveness of the stress reduction technique depends on practice.
Burn-Out occurs where people who have previously been highly committed to a sport lose interest and motivation.
Typically it will occur in hard working, hard training, hard driven people, who become emotionally, psychologically or physically exhausted. This can occur where:
Often it will express itself in a reduction in motivation, volume and quality of performance, or in dissatisfaction with or departure from the sport altogether.
Burn-out will normally occur slowly, over a long period of time. It may express itself physically or mentally. Symptoms of burn-out are shown below:
If you are training and performing hard, then you should take great care not to burn-out.
You can avoid physical burn-out by keeping the sport fun: intense, difficult training sessions that significantly improve technique should be mixed with lighter, enjoyable sessions that use new skills to good advantage. A relatively slow build-up from off-seasons can be adopted so that your body is not put under excessive stress. You should respect feelings of intense physical fatigue and rest appropriately.
Similarly, you can avoid mental burn-out by ensuring that the sport remains fun: there is a limit to your mental energy that you should respect. As you get better at a sport, people will want more and more of your time, and will rely on you more and more. It is easy for commitments to get bigger and bigger: people tend to be quite happy to consume other peoples mental resources without worrying about the consequences. You must learn to say ‘No’ to commitments that you do not want to take on – otherwise you will be in severe danger of burning out as you become unhappy with your situation. Involvement in sport must be fun, otherwise there is no point in doing it.
If you feel that you are in danger of burning out, or are not enjoying your sport, the following points can help you correct the situation:
If you are in late stages of burn-out, feeling deeply demotivated and disenchanted with your sport, get help from a good psychologist.
Do not worry. If you are so demotivated in your sport that for a time you do not want to continue it, then drop it for a while. If you come back later, you may find that you start to enjoy it again, and can take on only those commitments you want to.
You may, however, find that you have absolutely no interest in continuing with the sport. In this case it is best to drop it altogether. If you are the sort of person who has burned out, i.e. highly motivated and hard driving, then a complete change of direction may be appropriate – it is very likely that you will find another area in which you will excel. You will find that you are only demotivated and listless in the area in which you burned out.
The difference is that you will have already burned out once: next time you now know the signs to look for and the things to watch. You will be able to pace yourself, and control your energy much more effectively, ensuring that you operate at stress levels where you can give your optimum performance.
Deciding your commitment to your sport is possibly the most important ‘Sports Psychology’ decision you will make.
If all you want out of sport is a bit of relaxed fun, then your approach should be entirely different from someone who wants to reach the top. It is important to realise that excellence demands complete dedication: if you want to be a top athlete, then training to be a top athlete must be the most important thing in your life. If your career or family are more important than your sport, then you will find it difficult to devote the time and dedication you need to achieve excellence to the sport, unless you have a very sympathetic boss or family.
Self-confidence is arguably one of the most important things you can have. Self-confidence reflects your assessment of your own self-worth. It will play a large part in determining your happiness through life.
Sport can be both enormously effective in improving self-worth, and highly destructive in damaging it. Where sport is used creatively, with emphasis on enjoyment, effective goal setting and monitoring of achievement of goals, it can build self-confidence as targets are reached and improvement in performance is noted.
Where children are compelled to participate in a sport for which they have no aptitude, this can be immensely destructive to self-confidence as failure and lack of self-worth are consistently reinforced. Coaches should ask themselves whether they are prepared to take moral responsibility for inflicting this damage, even if numbers are needed to make up a team.
Self-confidence allows you to take risks, as you have enough confidence in your own abilities to be sure that if things do go wrong, you can put things right.
The way in which you are self-confident is important: if you are underconfident, then you will not take risks that need to be taken. If you are over-confident, then you can end up not trying hard enough and losing.
Confidence should be based on observed reality. It should be based on the achievement of performance goals: you should be confident that you will perform up to your current abilities. Good self-confidence comes from a realistic expectation of success based on well practised physical skills, a good knowledge of the sport, respect for your own competence, adequate preparation, and good physical condition. The success attained should be measured in terms of achievement of personal performance goals, not achievement goals such as winning.
Where you are underconfident, you will commonly suffer from fear of failure (which will prevent you from taking risks effectively), self-doubt, lack of concentration, and negative thinking. Often you may find yourself blaming yourself for faults that lie elsewhere.These will damage your flow and disrupt your enjoyment of sport. Here you should use suggestion, visualisation, and effective goal-setting to improve your self-confidence and self-image.
Overconfidence is dangerous – it can lead you into situations which you do not have the ability to get out of. It can set you up for serious failure that can devastate the self-confidence you should have. Overconfidence is confidence that is not based on ability: it may be a result of misleading or pushy parents or coaches trying to help you without understanding your abilities, may be caused by vanity or ego, or may be caused by positive thinking or imagery which is not backed up by ability.
Goal setting is probably the most effective way of building self-confidence. By setting measurable goals, achieving them, setting new goals, achieving them, and so on you prove your ability to yourself. You are able to prove to yourself that you are able to perform and achieve effectively. You can see and recognise and enjoy your achievement, and feel real self-worth in that achievement.
Importantly, by knowing what you are able to achieve, you are not setting yourself up for surprise failure – you almost always have a reasonably accurate assessment of what your abilities really are, which is unclouded by ego or vanity.
For more information on goal setting, click here.
Imagery is useful in building self-confidence, but only if properly applied.
Imagery should be used to imagine achievement of a goal that is being worked towards in order to help you to believe that that goal is attainable.
It should only be used, however, where you are rationally aware that you have the raw ability to achieve a goal if you stretch yourself, but if psychological factors such as lack of emotional self-confidence are interfering with your ability to achieve. For many years psychologists have advocated use of imagery, positive thinking, and suggestion without stressing that it should be based on a rational assessment of abilities. This can easily lead to over-confidence and serious failure.
The following pointers should lead you to maximise your sporting abilities:
You can help yourself to routinely apply sports psychology techniques by getting into the habit of using a Training and Performance diary before and after every training session and performance.
The Training and Performance diary is an extremely effective tool that brings together and helps to apply almost everything that this Mind Tools Sports Psychology section has covered.
Take a diary that has a full page for every day. Block each page into sections for:
Keeping this diary has the following advantages:
Part of mental preparation for competition is ensuring that you start your performance in a state of flow. Many high level athletes do this by developing routines that help them to focus their minds and block out distractions. These may involve complex and detailed rituals that involve preparation, detailed dressing rules, or precisely executed warm-ups. Part of this practised routine might involve specific sports psychology skills such as imagery, positive thinking, mood control and distraction and stress management, perhaps using a Training & Performance Diary.
All of this ensures that you enter a competitive situation in the ideal state of mind to give an excellent performance.
Experiment with developing a ritual that covers all points of preparation that you consider to be important. By practicing this ritual and keeping it standard in training, it will be automatic and complete when you face a potentially stressful competition
You can perform best in competition if you remember the following pointer:
The On-Site Psych Plan works in conjunction with pre-competition routines to prepare fully for competition.
The idea of the On-Site Psych Plan is to prepare you for any reasonable eventuality, so that you can deal with the inevitable distractions that will occur as rapidly and effectively as possible. This helps to ensure that you are in a positive and focused frame of mind for the start of your event.
To prepare the plan, list all the physical and mental steps that occur between arriving on site and the start of the performance. List every distraction that might reasonably occur during this time. Next to the listed items, list what to do if these occur or go wrong and why you will do it. Next to that list what you will do if that goes wrong.
This will ensure that you have thought about and prepared for every reasonable eventuality that might occur up to the start of the performance. This will significantly reduce any anxiety you may feel, as not only do you know how you will deal with any problems that come along, you will know how to react if your first solutions do not work.
You can practise your on-site psych plan using imagery and simulation.
After using the plan in a competition, re-examine and refine it for the next competition.
A refocussing plan is very similar to an on-site psych plan, in that it aims to prepare to return you to a state of focus and flow during a performance where something goes wrong. This might be because you are distracted, become stressed, make a mistake or suffer an unjust refereeing decision.
Since you will need to apply the refocussing plan rapidly, it needs to be short and simple.
An effective way of preparing the plan is to list what might go wrong with the performance, and then write down how you will let go of the distraction and refocus on your performance. This might be by rapid application of a relaxation technique, by using a cue-word that has been linked to a feeling of focus, or by effective use of imagery.
Practice applying the effective refocussing technique using imagery or simulation. This will make it easier to use and apply the technique during competition.
This review on Sports Psychology has drawn information from the following sources:
يعرف الطب النفسي الحزن أو الأسى بأنه رد فعل الإنسان حينما يفقد شيئا عزيزا عليه قد يكون هذا الشيء مال أو جاه أو سلطان و الأعم أن يكون شخص عزيز كالولد أو الوالدين أو شريك ورفيق العمر و أذكر هنا شخصيا أن اكبر صدمة حزينة مررت بها في حياتي حينما ماتت أمي فكنت أظن أن الأم لا تموت
و لو عرفنا الحياة الدنيا بأنها سلسلة من الفقد منذ الميلاد فعندنا الأبوين لنفقدهما و نتعلم لكي نفقد العلم و ونعمل المال لنفقده و نملك الصحة و القوة ليأتي يوما لنفقدها إلى أن نفقد الحياة و هذه هي الدنيا أي آدني ما في الوجود لأنها لا تعطي إلا و تأخذ ما أعطت
و بالتالي فان الإنسان في حياته يمر بسلسلة من الأحزان
ومن الصعب التعميم طبيا بأن أي رجل أقدر على تحمل صدمة الأحزان عن أي امرأة و العكس أيضا صحيح. فتختلف قدرة كل منا عن الآخر في ذلك وهي تعود إلى عوامل كثيرة منها النشأة و البيئة و أسلوب التربية فمن نشأ مدللا منعما من الصعب عليه تحمل مثل هذه الصدمات و ليس مثل من نشأ يملك القليل ويذق من خشونة الحياة أصناف و ألوان .. إلا انه من الممكن الجزم بأن الرجل أقدر في عدم الإفصاح بمدى حزنه عن المرأة فالمرأة في مختلف المجتمعات و الأديان تظهر أشكالا و صنوفا من التعبير عن الحزن كالبكاء و العويل والصوات والصياح و الندب و لطم الخدود و شق الجيوب و يندر أن يظهر الرجل ذلك أو ما هو أكثر من البكاء الصامت.. و بالطبع هذا لا يدل بالمرة عن كم ما تحمله المرأة من حزن حقيقي أو تموج به نفس الرجل من أسى و حزن
الصدمات الحزينة مرتبطة بكافة الأمراض و لو زرت الرعاية المركزة في أي مركز من مراكز أمراض القلب تأتي حالات جلطات القلب في المقدمة والتي تتبع صدمة حزينة و كذلك قرحة المعدة و السكتة الدماغية ( جلطة المخ) و القولون العصبي و أغلب هذه الأمراض أكثر شيوعا في الرجال عنها في النساء و أثبتت الدراسات إنها تتسبب بعامل حزن مع الاستعداد الوراثي و العوامل المرضية الأخرى في كل حالة و يقول الله تعالى في سورة يوسف ” و تولى عنهم و قال يا أسفي على يوسف وابيضت عيناه من الحزن و هو كظيم” يوسف 12 ويرى أطباء العيون إن ابيضت عيناه أي أصابها الكتاراكت (المياه البيضاء) التي ترتبط ارتباطا وثيقا بالحزن .. وكظيم بمعنى كاتم الحزن و الكرب..
و كل إنسان منا له عضو بجسمه يعتبر نقطة ضعف يئن و يتوجع مع الأحزان فمنا ما من تتألم أسنانه ومنا من تبوح مفاصله بآلامها الروماتيزمية أو تتهيج عليه قرحة معدته و غير ذلك الكثير.
أما عن الحزن و الطب النفسي على وجه الخصوص فيندرج الحزن تحت أحد التشخيصات النفسية في التصنيفين الأمريكي و العالمي وأعراضه الشعور بالأسى و الأرق وفقد الشهية وفقد الوزن وهو يعد إحساسا طبيعيا عند كافة الناس و الطبيعي أيضا أن يتلاشى تدريجيا في غضون شهرين على الأكثر أما إذا كان مصحوبا بأعراض كالإحساس بالذنب و تمني الموت و التفكير في الخلاص من الحياة والتأخر النفس حركي و التدهور في أداء مهامه الوظيفية وحياته الاجتماعية وقد تنتابه بعض الهواجس كأن يسمع صوت الميت أو يراه فهنا تكون مضاعفات حالة الحزن باضطراب اكتئابي و يلزم هنا التدخل بالعلاج الدوائي والذي يساعد إلى حد كبير جدا في تحسن الحالة و عودة الإنسان إلى طبيعته
لا أنسى أبدا الزوجة التي أبلغناها بوفاة زوجها فكانت ردة فعلها إنها فقدت حياتها في ثوان معدودة بعد سماعها الخبر *(في القاهرة) و يتردد على العيادة الخارجية كثير من النساء اللاتي فقدن عزيز في حياتهن ولكن لم يقوون على ممارسة حياتهن بصورة طبيعية فيما بعد و يشكون دائما من انتكاسات لحالات الاكتئاب المستمر والتي تأخذ صورا عديدة .
و إذا كان هناك مجالا لذكر رد فعل الحيوان مع الصدمة الحزينة فأذكر أن الأسد الذي مد يده فأصاب رئة محمد الحلو لاعب السيرك المشهور فمات في أحد العروض افتقد الأسد رفيق عمره و حاول المدربون إعادته للعروض فلم يفلحوا و فقد الشهية للطعام و اللعب والحركة ولما يئسوا منه أحالوه إلي حديقة الحيوان فلم يأكل أي شئ و نحل جسده وهزل هزالا شديدا ثم بدأ يأكل ذيله حتى أسال دمه ومات
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